On knowledge sharing and dissemination

... when circulating a working paper for comments, never put on "citations only permitted with the permission of author"

or "no parts of this paper can be used without permission of author". Rather, say "when using parts of this paper please give proper citation and help yourself". Be delighted if someone wants to quote you ... (p.7)

Source: Glaser, B. G. (2006) The roots of grounded theory. The Grounded Theory Review, 5(2/3), 1-10.

Saturday 12 January 2013

Anak siapakah ini Part 2 ...


... and as i watched the wanita "bibik" and the child ... i looked around ...

trying to guess who among them was the mother that deserved the accolade "mama" ...

i looked and each one looked back ... senyum berbalas senyum ...

still i was not sure which ...

i got up and out of the surau ... to the car ... waiting for centa hati oghang besar dighumah selesai solat ...

then i  saw them ... wanita "bibik"  holding the child ... the child hugging her  back tightly ... and "mama" in tow ... an elegant lady ... moving towards an equally elegant car ...

i remembered ... that she was the lady next to the wanita "bibik" ...

and i remembered thinking ... tidak tersentuh kah hati ibu ini ... apabila anak itu tersedu sedan memeluk dan mendayu dayu memanggil  ... bibikkkk ... babaaaa .... bibikkk ...

and NOT ... mamaaa ...

~

 ohhhh ... sedihku masih belum berlalu ... that child's voice is still ringing in my ears ...

 ~


6 comments:

  1. kann... and still some people dare to complaint pasal bibik malas. kaktek tak salahkan bibik buat hal sebab 24/7 terperuk dgn family orang.. can't imagine if we're born to be bibik.
    Syukur sangat kita lahir jd org Malaysia.

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    1. Assalamualaikum dear kaktek ...

      i wish to quote MP in her blog intro about truth ... your side, their side and the TRUTH ...

      ... in kajian we called it multiple realities ... what i saw was only one version of the reality ... from one single observation ... i cannot conclude nor can i make judgement ... i can only state my feeling ... rightly or wrongly ... based upon the context and the real life that i ve seen ... and again ... rightly or wrongly ... i ve projected that present into the future ...

      ... love and salam ...

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  2. Salam real,
    bila baca part two baru faham cerita sebenar..that lady is lucky to hv a good maid but nak dpt yg baik tu 1 dlm 100 or maybe 1000..
    Klu cerita pasal bibik mmg nvr ending story..

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    1. Waalaikumussalam wbt dear blu,

      yes ... it is difficult ... it is another discipline of HRM ... cuma lebih-lebih lagi mencabar ... from acquisition to separation ... :)

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  3. Assalamualaikum REAL,

    Syukur ada bibik sebaik ini. Cuma sedikit sedih utk si anak kerana lebih petah memanggil BIBIK dari MAMA. Yakni..

    p/s;
    Ada seorang kawan yg juga bersituasi begini. Namun pd si pulan.. I got money.. Dinar rules..

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    1. Waalaikumussalam wbt Sham dear,

      yes ... itu jugalah yang membuatkan saya sedih ...

      ... Sham sihat? belum sempat ziarah ... you take care ... ni jadi ibu dan bapa buat sementara ni kena kuat semangat okay :)

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