On knowledge sharing and dissemination

... when circulating a working paper for comments, never put on "citations only permitted with the permission of author"

or "no parts of this paper can be used without permission of author". Rather, say "when using parts of this paper please give proper citation and help yourself". Be delighted if someone wants to quote you ... (p.7)

Source: Glaser, B. G. (2006) The roots of grounded theory. The Grounded Theory Review, 5(2/3), 1-10.

Saturday 5 January 2013

Bully ...

... many ways we got bullied in life i am sure ...

emotionally ... mentally ... physically

but i like this girl's way of handling her tormenter

... let me set the scene ...

... ni di west midlands uk ye ...

i was in the library ... biasa lah sambil buat ape yang perlu ... buat juge ape yang tak perlu ...

from where i was sitting i could watch a group of kindergarten children taking a break outside ...

and i saw this hero macam dalam filem hindustan ... very small version ...

agaknye pekenan dengan girl cute macam MP masa kecik-kecik ni ... i knew she was the daughter of a brunei officer studying in the same uni.

and he kejar-kejar her ... pusing-pusing ... si comel tu pun lari-lari ... mencik lah agaknye ... he he 

anak omputih lain tu dia tak kejar pun ... si comel melayu ni juge yang di pekenannye ...

dah agaknye penat ... instead of lari ... she made a sudden TURNAROUND and CEKAK her pinggang and looked at her tormenter ... ape lah yang di katenye tak lah pule dapat di dengar ...

but i could see her tormenter slowly backing off and withdrew ...

he he he ... yesss ... that's my kind of girl ...

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Love and Salam :)
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6 comments:

  1. salam Real,
    part buli membuli ni ada yang masih boleh tolerate cam budak tu gamaknya the boy suka that girl and nak get her attention..
    but some buli yang siap ada geng utk buli budak lain.. isshhh yang tu memang menakutkan...some even as young as 7 yrs old..primary one dah pandai nak buli kawan sekelas.. siap tarik2 seluar..jenis yang tu memang kena gi jumpa pakar psikologi kot.. sbb kecil2 dah menunjukkan violent behavior...

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  2. Wa'alaikumussalam wbt dear Blu... actually i had in my mind bullies that get away because the systems support them ...

    banyak contoh ... but mostly i sensed through some of our dear friends' entries ...

    ... jadi nye teringat sicomel ni ... she has learned at a very tender age not to accept nonsense ... but in adult life we become helpless due to constraints placed upon us by systems ... i am using the word systems here in a very generic way ...

    ... adoiii ter serious sangat lah pule ... the truth is saye terasa tersangat di bully oleh neighbour ... he he he ...

    ... malulah pule ... this is nothing compared to what others are going through in their respective job and family or should i say ex-family ... :)

    ... Love and Salam :)

    p/s: tentang jumpe pakar psi tu ... rasanye yang kene jumpe tu ibubapanye ...

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  3. sambung cerite bile girl kena bully ... di kampung dulu ada girl ni ... dikampong ni masa dulu semuanye serba serbi kekurangan ... but this girl was especially harrased by the orang kampong especially the boys/men i don't understand why ... rasanye sama saje miskin kami tu ... they lived right across tanah perkuburan kampung ... jauh dari rumah orang lain ... mungkin mereka menumpang tanah di situ ... sebab now keluarga tu dah tak ada dah ...

    ... and this girl dah anak dara dah masa tu while i was still in sek rendah ... when harrassed this young lady would lift her sarong and showed them her backside ... memang anak pahlawan ... ada sesiape berani buat macam tu ...

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    1. hahahaaa.. irish men je selalu buat macam tu... ada darah irish kot..:D

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    2. ye kannn ... tapi sedih lah tengok orang buat dia macam tu ... maybe now she gone to ireland he he ... may Allah SWT reward her for the pain that others have inflicted on her ...

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