On knowledge sharing and dissemination

... when circulating a working paper for comments, never put on "citations only permitted with the permission of author"

or "no parts of this paper can be used without permission of author". Rather, say "when using parts of this paper please give proper citation and help yourself". Be delighted if someone wants to quote you ... (p.7)

Source: Glaser, B. G. (2006) The roots of grounded theory. The Grounded Theory Review, 5(2/3), 1-10.

Wednesday, 17 July 2013

Sweet memory ...


Assalamualaikum wbt ...


is like corals in the deep sea ... you leave it ... grow it will ... and a gesture in a distant past becomes a glow in the present ...

this is how i felt about something beautiful that happened yesterday ... 

just before iftar i received a message ...

Anak: Assalamualaikum acik :-) Alhamdulillah i received the news that i passed my professional exam, d grades are not yet announced. i think i may not have d chance 2 further research in harvard as 4 d cost & lack in qualifications. i still believe in doing research locally iA for the next 1 year. do pray for me :)

Acik: Walaikumussalam wbt dear T... AlhamduLillah syukur banyak for your achievement. Allah SWT eases your path ameen. About Harvard not to worry. Banyak paths insyaAllah to go there. Maybe not now. My doa for you :) selamat berbuka. Allah SWT terima ibadah kita mudahan insyaAllah ameen.

Then after iftar i received another message, just before 'isyak ...

Anak: Acik, i have a sensitive question. Do you think er .. i may get good husband?

(a very very big smile as i read that ... i ve the feeling that she purposely asked to trigger that smile precisely ... but never has anyone asked me such a sweet question ...)

Acik: hehehe. Simple dear. Mohon pada Allah SWT for suami yang baik. Yang sabar dengan perangai kita yang kadang kadang kurang arif. InsyaAllah InsyaAllah. Acik doakan yang baik untuk T... Ameen. Ingat Acik dalam doa T... ye. :) nak solat now. Esok sambung insyaAllah.

Anak: Jazakillah acik. ameen :) Insyaallah ingat acik dalam doa :)

 the anak, though not mine, is like that beautiful fish swimming among the glowing corals ... calm and calming ... SubhanAllah ... AlhamduLillah ... May Allah SWT keep her safe and baik fiddunya wal akhirah ameen ...

~

update kecik ...

hmmm i ve understood ... her question was a reaction to the flying fox's news about a marriage going through the haze ... the challenge facing a doctor wife must have created fear in this future young doctor herself ...
Wahai anak ... May Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala protect you against duka nestapa perkahwinan and this life ... and may you light the lives of those who are in pain ... Ameen




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  1. blu4sky17 July 2013 at 14:34

    salam sis real,
    anak buah ke yang bertanya soalan cepu mas tu..hehehe..wish her all the best..

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    1. Real Life in Malaysia17 July 2013 at 14:48

      Wa'alaikumussalam wbt dear sister,

      no ... semua anak anak buah called me mak'mbong :) this anak is a daughter of a friend masyaAllah so sweet ... in medical studies. AlhamduLillah syukur banyak for such kurnia Allah SWT.

      tak habis lagi senyum saya ni since yesterday remembering her ... AlhamduLillah :)

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