Montel ...

Assalamualaikum wbt ...

hari sabtu ikat janji dengan suami ... 

esok kita ke port dickson ye ziarah cousin ...

suami jawab okay but we must get out early in the morning ... he sangatlah fobia jam kat jalan ... especially since kakinya sakit ... kita offer to drive tak mau pula ...

so early in the morning kami bertolak ... ikut highway seremban - port dickson tu laju je but jalan dah banyak berubah due to new roads and exits ... only after a few calls sebab sesat situ sesat sini ... baru sampai alhamduLillah ...

sampai je i was greeted by anak-anak cousin perempuan yang montel montel amat ... berpeluk salam saya pun terus menuju ke katil cousin (lelaki) ... sebenarnya hari raya ni dia dapat cuti dari hospital untuk bersama keluarga di rumah ... he has been in and out of the hospital for the past few months due to diabetic complication ...

... saya berdiri di sisi katil berlinang air mata dengan keadaannya ... berbicara dengannya yang sangat lemah but AlhamduliLLah sabar ... masih bujang in his forties syukur Alhamdulillah dia ada kakak yang devoted to his care ... semoga Allah SWT mengembalikan kesihatannya dan mengurniakan kesabaran padanya ...

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diabetic and heart issues run in my cousin's family ...

mother ... father ... first brother ... third brother semuanya telah kembali ke rahmatuLLAh (may Allah SWT forgive them all) ... mother and both the brothers in their fifties ...

presently ... second sister also in her fifties on daily insulin jabs ...

and this cousin ... in his forties ...

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and kemontelan also runs in the family ... main cause i believe was due to the kedai makan yang arwah mak cik dan pak cik usahakan ... maka the whole family macam makan kat restraurant hari-hari ... noodles, sugared drinks and all sort of gorengan being the main diet ...

and in those days montel is cute ... lagi montel lagi cute ...

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bila nak balik ... saya pesan dengan cousin cousin kurangkan karbohidrat untuk anak anak ye ...

kerana kesusahan dan kesibukan ibu ayah ... pelajaran terganggu ... cukup sampai setakat spm ... dan cukup jika mewah makan dan minum ... 

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tak pandai macam mana nak cakap anak anak tu kurang kan berat badan mereka supaya permasalahan yang sama tidak berulang ulang ...

cuma again and again saya cakap kurangkan carbohydrate ... kurangkan roti canai (sebab anak montel 5 tahun tu suka sangat roti canai ... 2 keping tak cukup kata emaknya) ... kurangkan mi ... kurangkan nasi ...kurangkan goreng goreng ... more veges ... more ikan okay i said ...

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it will take a while ... maybe a long while for our orang kita to understand yang ... montel is comel  ... but montel is not comel for health ...

kawan kawan yang montel tak usahlah terasa ... because kesedihan ini sangat berkaitan dengan keluarga yang sangat saya kasihi ...