On knowledge sharing and dissemination

... when circulating a working paper for comments, never put on "citations only permitted with the permission of author"

or "no parts of this paper can be used without permission of author". Rather, say "when using parts of this paper please give proper citation and help yourself". Be delighted if someone wants to quote you ... (p.7)

Source: Glaser, B. G. (2006) The roots of grounded theory. The Grounded Theory Review, 5(2/3), 1-10.

Thursday 26 September 2013

Family matters ... Mindfulness


Assalamualaikum wbt ...

yes ... before ending the day ... since i am no longer having a personal diary ... just for the record catat je di alam maya yang semua boleh tengok ni :) ... kalau dulu dulu personal diary tu bukan main lagi ada yang siap berkunci lagi ... yang tak berkunci pula di kunci dengan kata kata ... Allah SWT melihat apa yang kamu lakukan :)
but zaman ni bukan saja diary tak berkunci lagi suka pula orang baca ... hehe ... sayalah tu ...
 
so here goes ...
syukur alhamduliLLah ...

First ...
 

 ... kak tam di port dickson berlepas ke Makkah Al-Mukarramah malam ni ... alhamduLillah bagi menunaikan fardu haji ... kak tam anakanda kepada arwah pakcik dan arwah makcik yang sangat mengambil berat diri ini semasa hayat mereka ...
 kak tam ni adik sepupu sebenarnya ... bachelor lady ... but adatlah kami orang di sini tak mengguna nama sebenar dalam komunikasi keluarga ... alhamduLillah she was offered to accompany an elderly neighbour yang tidak berwaris ... otherwise turn nya mungkin saja belum lagi ... kak'mbong doa mudahan kak tam dan kawan-kawan semua Allah SWT kurniakan haji yang mabrur ... selamat pergi dan selamat kembali ...


Second ...

 ... terima sms adinda Halimah to her kak'mbong saying ... saya, acik dan andah nak ikut trip ke BaitulMaqdis ...ambong nak tak ... saya bayarkan separuh insyaAllah ...

AlhamduliLLah syukur Ya Rahmaan ... kakmbong kena minta izin dulu ... okay insyaAllah ... but book lah juga ... 

AlhamduLillah izin sudah ... Allah khair ... semangat menjulang nak habis kan kerja sekolah yang banyak tertangguh ni ...

syukur Ya Allah for kind adik adik ... 
four of us girls ... girls lah konon hehe ... adik beradik ... itinerary tak ada lagi insyaAllah update kemudian ... Ya Allah permudahkanlah yang baik baik ...

update ...
AlhamduLillah syukur ... acik pula tambah yang separuh lagi ...


Third ...
gembira sangat ... so nak buat something different but healthy for suami for dinner ... he wants me to minimise use of santan ... so di giant senawang petang ni beli bendi since he suka sangat bendi ... nak masak kari dengan ikan tenggiri ... hmmm macam mana kari tak bersantan ni ye ... kebetulan petugas wanita yang timbang menimbang tu  wanita India maka dengan ramah tak malunya saya pun bertanya how do you make fish curry without santan  hehe ... petugas tu dengan suka hatinya mengajar saya ... sambil menimbang belian orang lain sambil mengajar saya step by step ... and ada pula sama mendengar ingin tahu ... terima kasih sangat kat petugas ... i promised to let her know the result ...

AlhamduLillah dah cuba ... and orang tu kata very nice ... hehe 
2 perkara i learned from the lady ... one ... crush - dalam lesung batu tu je- two small tomatoes ... and mixed into the curry paste ... and fry bendi yang tak payah potong tu sekejap tanpa minyak so that tak berlendir bendi tu bila masuk dalam kari ... saya memang tak pandai lah all these ... but alhamduLillah belajar sesuatu yang baru ...

syukur nya alhamduLillah ...

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AlhamduLillah syukur ... ending the day ... dah morning pun ... with review of  Hadith No 19 of the 40 Hadith compiled by Imam Al-Nawawi rahimahuLLAH ...  
i missed this yesterday ...

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Hadith No 19: Be Mindful of Allah SWT and Allah SWT will Protect You


Abu al-‘Abbas ‘Abdullah bin ‘Abbas (ra) reported: One day I was behind the Prophet(sas)and he said to me:

“I was riding behind the Prophet, peace be upon him, when he said, ‘Young man, I will teach you some words. Be mindful of God, and He will take care of you. Be mindful of Him, and you shall find Him at your side. If you ask, ask of God. If you need help, seek it from God. Know that if the whole world were to gather together in order to help you, they would not be able to help you except if God had written so. And if the whole world were to gather together in order to harm you, they would not harm you except if God had written so. The pens have been lifted, and the pages are dry.’ ”


Related by Tirmidhi

For a detailed audio commentary (10:19) ... please visit here ...


“Be mindful of Allah, He will be mindful of you...” This hadith reveals core truths about the nature of our relationship with Allah. If you take care of your relationship with Him, He will take care of you. Whatever you need or desire, in the end it can only come from Him. This is not to say that we can never ask people for help, but we should understand that ultimately Allah is the source of all help that comes our way. The companions used to ask Allah for help in everything, large or small, even in getting salt for their food 
(extract from the commentary)

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 May the Blessings of Allah SWT be upon us all ... 
... Aameen ...




2 comments:

  1. Assalamualaikum REAL,
    Kenapalah kita tak pernah terserempak di Giant Senawang?
    Sham selalu jer melepak di sana sambil mkn2 di restoran yg ada di situ.
    If not melepak, di kedai yg jual segala alatan hiasan taman tu.
    Kedai yg hujungggggg sekali tu.
    Btw, Sham pernah la jugak masak kari stail mamak ie. w'out santan.. unfortunately.. tak ada sambutan terus di rumah ni.
    Btw, keep us update on the itinerary jln2. Kecoh je Sham ni..

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    1. Wa'alaikumussalam wbt Sham,

      :) belum diizinkan Allah SWT begitu ... kedai bunga dah tiada lagi ... september ni they were busy vacating the place ... insyaAllah update info for the trip ... baru nak submit documentation ke kementerian luar negeri i think ... insyaAllah ... sesuatu yang tidak di rencana dan hadiah adik adik yang sangat berharga ... syukur AlhamduLillah ...

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