He he ... jadi satu cerita pula semut bertaring ni ...
Tinggalkan kerja sekejap ... google pula "apa nama lain bagi kelingkiak"
antara lain jawapan-jawapan yang masih kabur ...
http://www.carigold.com/portal/forums/printthread.php?t=41644&pp=40&page=2
Ini gambarnya - courtsey of: http://i299.photobucket.com/albums/mm312/hazualuv/2-14.jpg
Actually tak hitam pun ... cuma agaknya di malam gelap ... semuanya nampak hitam ... he he ...
I am inclined to agree with carigold that it is in fact anai-anai punya major ... as in army major ...
Berani bagi kaki? ... :)
Dan nama ini nampaknya memang orang ns punya ...
Back to work ...
What you see is not always what you get. Real people. Real life. Questions. And surprising answers ...
On knowledge sharing and dissemination
... when circulating a working paper for comments, never put on "citations only permitted with the permission of author"
or "no parts of this paper can be used without permission of author". Rather, say "when using parts of this paper please give proper citation and help yourself". Be delighted if someone wants to quote you ... (p.7)
Source: Glaser, B. G. (2006) The roots of grounded theory. The Grounded Theory Review, 5(2/3), 1-10.
Wednesday, 19 September 2012
Thursday, 23 August 2012
Eid Mubarak and the Gadgets
Dear Sisters,
Eid was on Sunday 20 August 2012. Home is where mother and father are. The entire family and the kids - the grandchildren. Everything was the usual Eid. Happy, loud and plenty of contradicting food.
But what was not usual was how the kids spent their time. Glued to the screens of their mother's, father's, sister's smartphones, I-pads and Tablets. The kids at 3 to 10 years. Their thumbs and fingers dancing on the screens, games, after games, after games ...
The wonder being that these gadgets have come a long way, highest level of foolproof, that the owners were not worried if those little happy thumbs and fingers would harm their precious properties.
They are the Triple A generation kids with Triple A generation gadgets ... cool, and no fear.
Eid Mubarak
Eid was on Sunday 20 August 2012. Home is where mother and father are. The entire family and the kids - the grandchildren. Everything was the usual Eid. Happy, loud and plenty of contradicting food.
But what was not usual was how the kids spent their time. Glued to the screens of their mother's, father's, sister's smartphones, I-pads and Tablets. The kids at 3 to 10 years. Their thumbs and fingers dancing on the screens, games, after games, after games ...
The wonder being that these gadgets have come a long way, highest level of foolproof, that the owners were not worried if those little happy thumbs and fingers would harm their precious properties.
They are the Triple A generation kids with Triple A generation gadgets ... cool, and no fear.
Eid Mubarak
Sunday, 22 January 2012
Hope
Dear Sisters, Assalamu'alaikum.
We try to make it a daily routine. A late nightly routine in fact. Husband and I would walk a particular route within the Taman, to keep our fats and cholestrol down. Age is catching up and health is running away. But we try to do whatever we could when we could.
The route we were taking took us to another Phase of the Taman. About two kilometers to the end of the route, which is quite isolated and dark among the end houses.
A usual walk became unusual tonight. As we turned back at the end of our route, a car came out from one of the houses, drove slowly, and stopped across us. "Who're are you looking for?", the driver, a man of similar generation, asked? A courteous enough question. But our senses said that what he was saying exactly was, what are you doing here ... that we are suspicious characters. Particularly since Husband is not exactly local in content ... and I can definitely pass for a transplant from another land ... the land of our paternal fore fathers in fact...
And I, the more Melayu one quickly said that we're taking our nightly exercise. And that we're from the neighbouring phase of the Taman. Husband added some pleasantries. "Oh", he said and drove on ...
We also moved along, with the feeling of emmmm.. not so nice about this incidence... we're talking about it. As we walked, that slight drizzle was getting heavier... I was holding onto Husband as we rushed along towards the house. By now we're on the main road, brightly lit by the street lamps ... As usual, we're walking on the right side of the road ... Sunnah, Husband said :-)
Suddenly, a car stopped on the left side of the road, going in the same direction. The driver, a young lad, wound the window down, and called across the heavy drizzles, *"Acik nak pergi mana?". This time our senses said, what he meant was, "It's raining. Can we give the both of you a lift?". Again quickly, I the more Melayu one, said,"Oh, we're are jogging, and our house is just in front, not much further. Thank you very much." With that the young lad smiled, and drove off.
And, that is HOPE. Hope for a nation that carry such caring youngs in her womb.
That my generation is getting cynical and suspicious of life (most probably due to the fats and cholestrol), the younger ones show us that there is Hope for real life still.
Translation for Sisters R(Walsall) and S(Dimondale):
Taman = Garden (literally). But in this country, most housing development are named as Taman this and that. Sounds nice isn't it?
acik = Auntie
nak = a short form of Hendak = wish = want
pergi = go
mana = where
Acik nak pergi mana? = Where do you wish to go auntie? = Where are you going auntie?
We try to make it a daily routine. A late nightly routine in fact. Husband and I would walk a particular route within the Taman, to keep our fats and cholestrol down. Age is catching up and health is running away. But we try to do whatever we could when we could.
The route we were taking took us to another Phase of the Taman. About two kilometers to the end of the route, which is quite isolated and dark among the end houses.
A usual walk became unusual tonight. As we turned back at the end of our route, a car came out from one of the houses, drove slowly, and stopped across us. "Who're are you looking for?", the driver, a man of similar generation, asked? A courteous enough question. But our senses said that what he was saying exactly was, what are you doing here ... that we are suspicious characters. Particularly since Husband is not exactly local in content ... and I can definitely pass for a transplant from another land ... the land of our paternal fore fathers in fact...
And I, the more Melayu one quickly said that we're taking our nightly exercise. And that we're from the neighbouring phase of the Taman. Husband added some pleasantries. "Oh", he said and drove on ...
We also moved along, with the feeling of emmmm.. not so nice about this incidence... we're talking about it. As we walked, that slight drizzle was getting heavier... I was holding onto Husband as we rushed along towards the house. By now we're on the main road, brightly lit by the street lamps ... As usual, we're walking on the right side of the road ... Sunnah, Husband said :-)
Suddenly, a car stopped on the left side of the road, going in the same direction. The driver, a young lad, wound the window down, and called across the heavy drizzles, *"Acik nak pergi mana?". This time our senses said, what he meant was, "It's raining. Can we give the both of you a lift?". Again quickly, I the more Melayu one, said,"Oh, we're are jogging, and our house is just in front, not much further. Thank you very much." With that the young lad smiled, and drove off.
And, that is HOPE. Hope for a nation that carry such caring youngs in her womb.
That my generation is getting cynical and suspicious of life (most probably due to the fats and cholestrol), the younger ones show us that there is Hope for real life still.
Translation for Sisters R(Walsall) and S(Dimondale):
Taman = Garden (literally). But in this country, most housing development are named as Taman this and that. Sounds nice isn't it?
acik = Auntie
nak = a short form of Hendak = wish = want
pergi = go
mana = where
Acik nak pergi mana? = Where do you wish to go auntie? = Where are you going auntie?
Tuesday, 28 June 2011
Baju Kurung
Salam Dear Sisters ...
Many things but could not move the thoughts into this frame ... among others ...
1. June 6, Husband finally got an old car for himself and passed on the auto which is lighter and easier to me ... so goodbye taxis for a long long time I hope ...
2. Dearest Hajjah R and Husband Haji S from Brunei came for a course ... alhamduLiLLAH so thankful for such dear friends in this short and challenging life ...
3. After a long time again I met Pak Cik in front of the Bank ...Why we as a nation cannot sort this sad situation out ... is it help ... is it enforcement ... what is it that is required ... Husband would say to me that I am not the mayor of the city ...
4. Met a sweet Chinese girl in KFC today, pusing-pusing* while waiting for her mother in queue. She was in Baju Kurung*. I am drawn to this because a few days ago our newspapers highlighted some state executives and councillors refused to wear the traditional uniform that reflects the local culture ... they stated their reasons of course but ...
Anyway back to this girl, "Adik sekolah di mana?" I asked ... Seri Puteri she said. Oh ramai kawan Melayu di sana ye? I tanya lagi ... Yes, majority ... she said. Uniform baju kurung ke? I asked again. She nodded, ye baju kurung and also pinnafore pun boleh ... Tapi adik suka Baju Kurung ye? I enquired ... Ye she nodded smilingly ...
Without sounding like a mayor ... I would say that this country is perfectly alright for the under 12. Beyond that we start to have our self vision of Malaysia ...just compare the behaviour of the State Executives and Councillors with that of this sweet Chinese girl ...
Translation:
1. Baju Kurung - a common dress worn by the Malay women of Malaysia. A traditional dress.Cheong Sam - traditional dress of Chinese women; Sari - traditional dress of Indian women.
2. Pusing-pusing - going here and there, keeping oneself busy without any specific purpose. Literally, pusing -round; pusing-pusing is round and round.
3. Adik sekolah di mana - Which school do you go to? Adik is a common way to address the younger ones. Adik - younger sister/brother.
4. Ramai - many
5. Kawan - friend(s)
6. Melayu -Malay
Salam and love ...
Many things but could not move the thoughts into this frame ... among others ...
1. June 6, Husband finally got an old car for himself and passed on the auto which is lighter and easier to me ... so goodbye taxis for a long long time I hope ...
2. Dearest Hajjah R and Husband Haji S from Brunei came for a course ... alhamduLiLLAH so thankful for such dear friends in this short and challenging life ...
3. After a long time again I met Pak Cik in front of the Bank ...Why we as a nation cannot sort this sad situation out ... is it help ... is it enforcement ... what is it that is required ... Husband would say to me that I am not the mayor of the city ...
4. Met a sweet Chinese girl in KFC today, pusing-pusing* while waiting for her mother in queue. She was in Baju Kurung*. I am drawn to this because a few days ago our newspapers highlighted some state executives and councillors refused to wear the traditional uniform that reflects the local culture ... they stated their reasons of course but ...
Anyway back to this girl, "Adik sekolah di mana?" I asked ... Seri Puteri she said. Oh ramai kawan Melayu di sana ye? I tanya lagi ... Yes, majority ... she said. Uniform baju kurung ke? I asked again. She nodded, ye baju kurung and also pinnafore pun boleh ... Tapi adik suka Baju Kurung ye? I enquired ... Ye she nodded smilingly ...
Without sounding like a mayor ... I would say that this country is perfectly alright for the under 12. Beyond that we start to have our self vision of Malaysia ...just compare the behaviour of the State Executives and Councillors with that of this sweet Chinese girl ...
Translation:
1. Baju Kurung - a common dress worn by the Malay women of Malaysia. A traditional dress.Cheong Sam - traditional dress of Chinese women; Sari - traditional dress of Indian women.
2. Pusing-pusing - going here and there, keeping oneself busy without any specific purpose. Literally, pusing -round; pusing-pusing is round and round.
3. Adik sekolah di mana - Which school do you go to? Adik is a common way to address the younger ones. Adik - younger sister/brother.
4. Ramai - many
5. Kawan - friend(s)
6. Melayu -Malay
Salam and love ...
Friday, 3 June 2011
PhD Proposal
Dear Sisters,
AlhamdulliLLAH. I've sent in the proposal to Dr Z who will forward it to the University ... although it was looking very much like a draft ... I wish I had access to a University's Library.
Husband said ... send it don't worry ... you are not writing a detailed proposal yet ... it's just an indicator of your interest and focus area ...
Done ... AlhamduLillah ...
I sms'd DrZ if it's sufficient ... and he said yes for the purpose of identifying the expert or supervisor in this field.
AlhamduLillah
Sisters Dearest ... I need your doa that I have the energy ... physical, mental and spiritual ... for this journey ... insyaAllah ...
AlhamdulliLLAH. I've sent in the proposal to Dr Z who will forward it to the University ... although it was looking very much like a draft ... I wish I had access to a University's Library.
Husband said ... send it don't worry ... you are not writing a detailed proposal yet ... it's just an indicator of your interest and focus area ...
Done ... AlhamduLillah ...
I sms'd DrZ if it's sufficient ... and he said yes for the purpose of identifying the expert or supervisor in this field.
AlhamduLillah
Sisters Dearest ... I need your doa that I have the energy ... physical, mental and spiritual ... for this journey ... insyaAllah ...
Thursday, 5 May 2011
InnaLillahi wa Inna Ilaihi Rajiun
Dear Sisters:
First, yesterday's front pages were all about Obama watching Osama being killed. Murdered would have been more appropriate I think, because the news said that he was unarmed ... Of course no video, no body. Throwing his body in the water indeed ... Kadirjasin.blogspot.com has some thoughts about this. Do visit him. It's in Bahasa Melayu though. I had my own thought .... pseudonym of course... InnaLillahi wa Inna Ilaihi Rajiun ... do you think this will make any difference to those who understand ...
Then, in the taxi to the business place (still using the taxi despite what has happened), I heard on the news that three young sisters had drowned at a familiar waterfall resort. Two bodies have been recovered so far ...
The small resort is on the way to our parents home. The news said that a father, his three daughters, and a female friend of the father were swept away by a sudden rush of water from upstream. The adults were saved by other people in the vicinity, but the children vanished downstream ...
I thought that's the end of the news ...
I reached the shop. Immediately, my shop assistant said that three girls, daughters of so and so had died of drowning in U.B. (the name of the resort). Shocked I said AstaghfiruLLAH, InnaLillahi wa Inna Ilaihi Rajiun and asked what had happened? The details were part of the front page news today ...
The father worked in a shop less than 10 meters away from ours. The children, like many children of staff and business owners in this area, had this entire complex as their playground. Their life and their parents life are sometimes played out in this very public area. So they are very familiar faces. A very, very sad ending to some unfortunate life events ...
Allah SWT loves them more ...
* The girls were 5, 4 and 2 years old. The eldest sister is still missing ... Mother has one more son with him ... May Allah SWT keep her warm with infinite sabr ...
* As the river seeks the sea, so my soul seeks thee ... will the soul of the girls meet that of Osama's in the sea? Allahuaklam ...
Love and salam ...
First, yesterday's front pages were all about Obama watching Osama being killed. Murdered would have been more appropriate I think, because the news said that he was unarmed ... Of course no video, no body. Throwing his body in the water indeed ... Kadirjasin.blogspot.com has some thoughts about this. Do visit him. It's in Bahasa Melayu though. I had my own thought .... pseudonym of course... InnaLillahi wa Inna Ilaihi Rajiun ... do you think this will make any difference to those who understand ...
Then, in the taxi to the business place (still using the taxi despite what has happened), I heard on the news that three young sisters had drowned at a familiar waterfall resort. Two bodies have been recovered so far ...
The small resort is on the way to our parents home. The news said that a father, his three daughters, and a female friend of the father were swept away by a sudden rush of water from upstream. The adults were saved by other people in the vicinity, but the children vanished downstream ...
I thought that's the end of the news ...
I reached the shop. Immediately, my shop assistant said that three girls, daughters of so and so had died of drowning in U.B. (the name of the resort). Shocked I said AstaghfiruLLAH, InnaLillahi wa Inna Ilaihi Rajiun and asked what had happened? The details were part of the front page news today ...
The father worked in a shop less than 10 meters away from ours. The children, like many children of staff and business owners in this area, had this entire complex as their playground. Their life and their parents life are sometimes played out in this very public area. So they are very familiar faces. A very, very sad ending to some unfortunate life events ...
Allah SWT loves them more ...
* The girls were 5, 4 and 2 years old. The eldest sister is still missing ... Mother has one more son with him ... May Allah SWT keep her warm with infinite sabr ...
* As the river seeks the sea, so my soul seeks thee ... will the soul of the girls meet that of Osama's in the sea? Allahuaklam ...
Love and salam ...
Monday, 2 May 2011
Sisters
Yes ... Not the ones that you are born with... But the ones that you acquired along the life's complicated and winding journey. Recently I noticed that these beloved sisters of mine (a British, a Singaporean and a Sarawak-Bruneian) have R as their initials. And my mum and dad tooo...! Of course mother was never known by her birth name. She has her special name ... S. My other beloved sister in Dimondale* has S for an initial too.
My British Sister R I met in Walsal. But the beginning was in Brunei where both Singapore Sister R and I were working with the Government Educational concerns.
I wanted very much to get that Masters. What to do? I talked about it with Singapore Sister R who completed her Masters in IT in the UK using her own fund. How did you do it? How much do you need? So many questions ... and her answers and guidance gave me the courage to send in the notice for resignation. Ten years on the job and I had enough to tide me over the 1 year program and extra for the family, alhamduLILLAH.
She said you'll need about 10,000 sterling pounds for tuition and another 5,000 for food and lodging. She was good at managing her budget, she said that was more than enough. Me ...? Many things happened in the process and of course the budget got extended ... despite enrolling in a less expensive university environment.
That was slightly over ten years ago. 1997 to be precise. It will be much much more now I am sure. But the point is ... you can do it if you plan for it.
1997 was a bad year for Malaysia and the whole world ... time was tough for everyone who are not employed that is. I didn't realise it then ... never was good at national and economic affairs ...being overseas did that to you ...
At the airport as I was saying goodbyes to the family ... the airport officer who was watching and listening to us said with a smile... How is it in this bad times you are taking our money out of the country ...
Honestly I did not comprehend the seriousness of the situation until in the University when a Prof S... came to me at the Computer Room with a concerned look on his face. M.... he said. Are you okay? A lot of Malaysian students are going back. They can't afford to stay. If you have any problem whatsoever and need help please tell me, he said. Grateful for his concern, I assured him that I was prepared for this, financially AlhamduLILLAH... despite our currency sliding terribly against the British pound.
Overdue nevertheless, Dearest Sister, thank you for giving me the courage to pursue and realize my dream ...and another dream coming on ... hmm ... that PhD ... insyaALLAH. Definitely I believe that dreams are made in our minds and supported by great sisters, many things can happen InsyaALLAH ...
Love and salam ...:-)
*Dimondale of East Lansing, Michigan.
My British Sister R I met in Walsal. But the beginning was in Brunei where both Singapore Sister R and I were working with the Government Educational concerns.
I wanted very much to get that Masters. What to do? I talked about it with Singapore Sister R who completed her Masters in IT in the UK using her own fund. How did you do it? How much do you need? So many questions ... and her answers and guidance gave me the courage to send in the notice for resignation. Ten years on the job and I had enough to tide me over the 1 year program and extra for the family, alhamduLILLAH.
She said you'll need about 10,000 sterling pounds for tuition and another 5,000 for food and lodging. She was good at managing her budget, she said that was more than enough. Me ...? Many things happened in the process and of course the budget got extended ... despite enrolling in a less expensive university environment.
That was slightly over ten years ago. 1997 to be precise. It will be much much more now I am sure. But the point is ... you can do it if you plan for it.
1997 was a bad year for Malaysia and the whole world ... time was tough for everyone who are not employed that is. I didn't realise it then ... never was good at national and economic affairs ...being overseas did that to you ...
At the airport as I was saying goodbyes to the family ... the airport officer who was watching and listening to us said with a smile... How is it in this bad times you are taking our money out of the country ...
Honestly I did not comprehend the seriousness of the situation until in the University when a Prof S... came to me at the Computer Room with a concerned look on his face. M.... he said. Are you okay? A lot of Malaysian students are going back. They can't afford to stay. If you have any problem whatsoever and need help please tell me, he said. Grateful for his concern, I assured him that I was prepared for this, financially AlhamduLILLAH... despite our currency sliding terribly against the British pound.
Overdue nevertheless, Dearest Sister, thank you for giving me the courage to pursue and realize my dream ...and another dream coming on ... hmm ... that PhD ... insyaALLAH. Definitely I believe that dreams are made in our minds and supported by great sisters, many things can happen InsyaALLAH ...
Love and salam ...:-)
*Dimondale of East Lansing, Michigan.
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